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Wednesday 31 August 2011

Gandhi’s Top 10 Fundamentals for Changing the World.



1. Change
“You must be the change you want to see in the world.”
“As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world – that is the myth of the atomic age – as in being able to remake ourselves.”
2. Control.
“Nobody can hurt me without my permission.”

3. Forgiveness

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”
“An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind.”

4. Action.

“An ounce of practice is worth more than tons of preaching.”

5. The present moment.

“I do not want to foresee the future. I am concerned with taking care of the present. God has given me no control over the moment following.”

6. Everyone is human.

“I claim to be a simple individual liable to err like any other fellow mortal. I own, however, that I have humility enough to confess my errors and to retrace my steps.”
“It is unwise to be too sure of one’s own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err.”

7. Persist.

“First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.”

8. Goodness.

“I look only to the good qualities of men. Not being faultless myself, I won’t presume to probe into the faults of others.”
“I suppose leadership at one time meant muscles; but today it means getting along with people.”
9. Truth
“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”
“Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well.”
10. Development.
“Constant development is the law of life, and a man who always tries to maintain his dogmas in order to appear consistent drives himself into a false position.”

Be careful what kind of fruit and vegetables you eat!!!!!!


Between 2000 and 2009, the Environmental Working Group (EWG) tested 53 popular fruits and vegetables, to find those that had high levels of pesticides.
If, in your quest to reduce exposure to pesticides, it’s not possible for you to eat organic food and vegetables (at least for the 10 fruit and vegetables below) all the time, at least try to always eat locally grown produce from reasonable agriculture.


Understanding the impact of pesticides:

  • Why are pesticides toxic? Because they were created to kill living organisms (plants, weeds and insects that attack crops), pesticides present a danger to man as well. Pesticides are accused of provoking nervous system problems, cancer, and hormonal deregulation. Therefore it’s important to avoid pesticides as far as possible, and above all avoid accumulating them in the body.
  • Should we stop eating fruit and vegetables? Of course, not – fruit and vegetables are essential human foods, and guarantee good health while preventing a number of diseases. The benefits of a diet rich in fruit and vegetables remain higher than the known risks involved with pesticide exposure. That being said, by eating organic produce, we can avoid most pesticides.
  • Is washing and peeling my fruit and vegetables effective against pesticides? Not really, as the Environmental Working Group (EWG) study was carried out with washed fruit and vegetables. And while washing all your fruit and vegetables before eating is definitely necessary, systematically peeling them is not the best solution because most of the vitamins and antioxidants are found in the skin. In addition, many fruits and vegetables store the pesticides in the flesh as well.


The ten most polluted fruit and veg:

Apples: More than 700 apple samples were tested by the EWG. 98% of them contained traces of pesticides and 92% contained at least 2 different types of pesticide. Along with peaches, apples are one of the most highly pesticide treated fruits, with not less than 56 different chemical substances being employed.

Blueberries: With their porous and fragile skin, blueberries hold pesticides deep within them. And what about frozen blueberries? While blueberries are often found in the frozen section of your supermarket, it’s best to avoid them as freezing helps preserve the pesticides too. 

Celery: 
96% of the celery samples tested positive for pesticides and nearly 90% contained a number of different types of pesticide. The problem with celery is that it takes time to arrive at maturity and is thus exposed to pesticides for a longer period than other vegetables.
Grapes: On one sample of grapes imported from the US, 14 different pesticides were detected. The presence of these traces is partly explained by the grape’s thin skin, that lets pesticides into the flesh. However, grapes produced locally in France showed that only 17.5% of samples contained traces of pesticides, while a study of European non-organic grapes showed that 99.2% of the samples were contaminated with pesticides.
Nectarines: 90.8% of the nectarines tested contained traces of at least two types of different pesticides. While the results don’t actually exceed authorised limits for each individual pesticide, these traces can still pose a problem as they become more powerful when combined with each other.
Peaches: 85.6% of the tested peaches contained traces of at least two different types of pesticide. With their thin skins, peaches are more receptive to absorbing pesticides.
Strawberries: On a single sample of strawberries, some 13 different types of pesticides were detected. And while you can wash a strawberry, you probably wouldn’t want to try peeling one!
Peppers: During this study, one sample of peppers contained more than 13 different chemical substances. During the European study, the pepper shone as the vegetable containing the highest number of pesticide traces – 21 in total. Unless they are organic, avoid red and yellow peppers if you can, as they are more mature versions of the green pepper and thus have more exposure time to the pesticides. 

Potatoes:
 Like all vegetables that grow directly in the earth, potatoes are more exposed to pesticides than other above ground vegetables. And their skin is so thin, that they easily absorb a number of pesticides and fungicides. According to the EWG study, 91.4% of potatoes contained pesticide traces.

Spinach:
 As spinach also grows close to the earth, they are highly exposed to insects and are thus overly protected with pesticides

Tuesday 23 August 2011

Some helpful material for your self esteem and soul


Key questions to help you find alternatives to self-critical thoughts
  • What is the evidence?
    • Am I confusing a thought with a fact?
    • What is the evidence in favour of what I think about myself?
  • What alternative perspectives are there?
    • Am I assuming my perspective is the only one possible?
    • What evidence do I have to support alternative perspectives?
  • What is the effect of thinking that way I do about myself?
    • Are these self-critical thoughts helpul to me, or are they getting in my way?
    • What perspective might be more helpful to me?
  • What are the biases in my thinking about myself?
    • Am I jumping to conclusions?
    • Am I using a double standard?
    • Am I thinking in all-or-nothing terms?
    • Am I condemning myself as a total person on the basis of a single event?
    • Am I concentrating on my weaknesses and forgetting my strengths?
    • Am I blaming myself for things which are not really my fault?
    • Am I expecting myself to be perfect?
  • What can I do?
    • How can I put a new, kinder perspective into practice?
    • Is there anything I need to do to change the situation? Even if not, what can I do to change my own thinking about it in the future?
    • How can I experiment with acting in a less self-defeating way?


Questions to help you to identify your good points

1. What do you like about yourself even small and fleeting?
2. What positive qualities do you possess?
3. What have you achieved in your life, however small?
4. What challenges have you faced?
5. What gifts or talents do you have, however modest?
6. What skills have you acquired?
7. What do other peoplpe like about you?
8. What qualities and actions that you value in others do you share?
9. What aspects of yourself would you appreciate if they were aspects of another person?
10. What small positives are you discounting?
11. How might another person who cared about you describe you?
 and remember review the evidence and look for the bigger picture, don't assume -check it out!!!!


Action planning


  • How did my low self-esteem develop?
  • What kept it going?
  • What were my most important unhelpful thoughts, rules and beliefs? What alternatives did I find to them?
  • How can I build on what I have learned?
  • What might lead to a setback, what will I do about it?




Saturday 20 August 2011

FASHION &TEXTILE CHILDREN'S TRUST

A helping hand for children of people in the UK fashion and textile industry, they can provide a grant to help your children reach their full potential. If you work in fashion retail or textiles and need some help, visit www.ftct.org.uk or call them in confidence on 02071704117.
Help include :educational grants, help with special needs, welfare essentials, support for special talents, mobility, course equipment Please do get in touch:
Fashion&Textile Children's Trust
Winchester House
259-269 Old Marylebone Road
London NW1 5RA
email: anna@ftc.org.uk

Wednesday 17 August 2011

5 THINGS THAT MAKE A WOMEN IRRESISTIBLE

They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but it usually takes more than a tasty meal to truly bowl him over. Here are five traits that men simply cannot resist.

1. A positive attitude
It’s amazing what looking on the bright side can achieve.  Psychologist Viren Swami found that pictures of women which came with a list of optimistic personality traits would be rated as more attractive as the same picture with negative attitude traits. Excellent!

2. Confidence
Probably know how to carry yourself, smile a lot, hold eye contact and appear comfortable in all kinds of social situations shows confidence. The bottom line is if you appear to be happy with yourself then the world, and in this case, men, will usually agree with you. As psychologist Berenecea Johnson-Eanes puts it, confident women are "intriguing and more interesting because they tend not to be burdened by the fear of low self-esteem." And this effect can extend into relationships too: "A confident woman will come to the relationship whole and not in need of confirmation of value from his or her mate. This is one of the most powerful and special characteristics one can offer to a relationship."

3. Curves
“Women with curvy hips and smaller waists are to men as beer is to an alcoholic,”

4. Her voice
There is a reason why Paris Hilton puts on that artificially high voice; apparently men go weak at the knees at women with a high-pitched voice. Research by David Feinberg found that men perceive attractiveness to increase with the pitch of the woman’s voice, but interestingly, it didn’t matter whether the woman was artificially increasing her voice’s pitch or whether it was natural. Scientists speculate that this is because the pitch of a woman’s voice reflects her size and therefore health.
5. A good sense of humour
This would be one way of putting it, or another might be a woman who laughs at her partner’s jokes. In a study of the role of humour in relationships, Bressler found that men will choose a woman based on her capacity to laugh at his jokes while women tend to go for ‘humour producers’. 




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Weekly Health Tip: Stress and the Brain


Deepak Chopra, MD - 
The human body responds to stress with a powerful fight-or-flight reaction. Hormones surge through the body, causing the heart to pump faster and sending extra supplies of energy into the bloodstream. For much of human history, this emergency response system was useful: It enabled people to survive immediate physical threats like an attack from a wild animal. But today, the stress in most people’s lives comes from the more psychological and seemingly endless pressures of modern life. Daily challenges like a long commute or a difficult boss can turn on the stress hormones—and because these conditions don’t go away, the hormones don’t shut off.  Instead of helping you survive, this kind of stress response can actually make you sick.
Chronic stress can harm the body in several ways. The stress hormone cortisol, for instance, has been linked to an increase in fat around organs, known as visceral fat. The accumulation of visceral fat is dangerous since these fat cells actively secrete hormones that can disrupt the functioning of the liver, pancreas and brain, causing problems such as insulin resistanceinflammation, and metabolic syndrome. Chronic exposure to other stress hormones can also weaken the immune system and even change the structure of chromosomes.
How Stress Affects the Brain Recent research suggests that chronic stress takes a toll on the brain, too. Studies on mice show that stress-related hormones alter physical structures in the brain in ways that could affect memory, learning, and mood. Some of these changes involve dendrites, tiny branch-like structures on nerve cells that send and receive signals. Several studies have shown that stress hormones canshrink dendrites and as a result, information doesn’t get relayed across nerve cells. When the cell damage occurs in a part of the brain called the hippocampus, it can impact memory and learning.
If stress makes you feel anxious, damage to dendrites might be part of the cause. A 2011 study found that rats whose dendrites had eroded due to stress had higher levels of anxiety. More research is needed to determine the exact effect of stress hormones on people’s brains, but one study of adults with post-traumatic stress disorder suggests that the stress hormone cortisol may actually shrink the size of the hippocampus. Researchers are still trying to determine if this is because of the hormone’s toxic effect on neurons or if there is a genetic component—or if both are involved.
Another part of the brain that seems to be affected by stress is the amygdala—the part of the brain that regulates fear and other emotions. A 2003 study found that in mice under stress, the amygdala grew larger while the dendrites in the hippocampus shrank. Researchers believe that together, these two effects may cause an increase in anxiety. They think that as amygdala grows in size, you may experience more anxiety and fear. (The amygdala is known to become bigger and more active in people who are depressed.) But because the hippocampus cells involved in memory are shrinking and not transmitting information effectively, you can’t connect the feelings of fear to memories of real events. You’re left with a lot of generalized anxiety.
Tips on Coping With Stress If this news about stress and the brain is giving you a headache—or stressing you out in other ways—relax. The good news is that you can learn healthy ways to cope with stress that will protect your brain—and the rest of your body—from stress’s negative effects.
Not everyone is equally vulnerable to stress. Genetics play a role in how a person’s body reacts. Your past experiences can affect your response, too. If you lived through a lot of stressful situations growing up, you may be more sensitive to stress as an adult. Try to notice your own reactions to stress. Do you stay calm when pressures mount, or can you feel your pulse increase just thinking about a stressful situation? Once you become aware of what sets off your body’s fight or flight response, you can use these tips to try to change your response to stress.
1. Resolve the stressful situation if you can. You may not have much control over many of the sources of stress in your life, but if there is a something you can do to resolve a stressful situation, do it! Talk to friends about what you can do to change a bad situation, and consider getting help from a conflict resolution expert if necessary. 
2. Spend time with loved ones and cultivate healthy friendships. Research shows that a good social support network has definite mental health benefits. It can keep you from feeling lonely, isolated, or inadequate and if you feel good about yourself, you can deal with stress better. Friends and loved ones can be a good source of advice and suggest new ways of handling problems. But they can also be an excellent distraction from what’s bothering you. If your network of friends is small, think about volunteering, joining an outdoor activities group, or trying an online meet-up group to make new friends.
3. Do an activity you like. Part of being stressed out is feeling that you never have enough time. So adding more activities to your schedule might seem like the last thing you need. But if you make even a little bit of time for an activity you really enjoy, the payoff can be huge: You feel calmer and happier and can deal with work and other demands better. Whether it’s playing music, doing a craft, or working on your car, do something that absorbs and relaxes you.
4. Try relaxation techniques. Meditation, yoga, and tai chi can help slow your breathing and heart rate and focus your mind inward, away from whatever is causing you stress.
5. Exercise regularly. Whether it’s walking outside with a friend or taking an exercise class at the gym, getting active can help you relax and help turn off your body’s stress response.
6. Get plenty of sleepWhen you’re well rested, you can approach stressful situations more calmly.
7. Eat a healthy diet. Stress is tough enough on your body, so help it out by feeding it fresh fruits and vegetables and low-fat protein.
8. Appreciate what’s good in your life. It sounds corny, but focusing your thoughts on positive parts of your life instead of the stress-ridden areas can be good for your physical health. Research shows that positive emotions helped people recover their normal heart rate more quickly after it was raised during exertion.
9. Laugh! Researchers are still investigating the precise effects of laughter on stress hormones, but some findings suggest that it has astress-relief effect on heart rate, respiratory rate, and muscle tension. Your own research has probably convinced you that laughing makes you feel better.
10. Seek professional counseling if necessary.  Extreme chronic stress is no laughing matter. Enlist the help of a professional if you think you are at risk for serious health effects.

Monday 15 August 2011

Poverty in Africa

Last week, the Disasters Emergency Committee issued another appeal calling for urgent donations for Africa which is going through a full-blown famine the first recorded in Africa for 27 years. Many women tie a rope around their waist to stave off their hunger pangs so they can give their children any food they get. This practice shows how desperately hungry women are. Women have died after untying their stomachs once food is available . The sudden reintroduction of food can shock the body too much, and even cause heart failure.
Around 2.9 million people in Somalia-a third of the population -need humanitarian aid, while nearly five million people are affected in Ethioia. Meanwhile, 3.5 million are at risk of starvation in Kenya.
Please to make a donation , visit www.actionaid.org.uk

New trends 2012


  • Masculine tailoring
  • Artsy-crafty texture rombos
  • Graphic silhouettes
  • Loose silhouettes
  • Asymetric dresses
  • Graphical optical prints
Christophe Kane:  New liquid bag around those water pencil cases
Roberto Cavalli: He has providing the world  with his heady dose of bohemian glamour for 40 years: Exotic prints, feather embellishment and metallics have been embraced by actresses all over the world.
"Glamour is an attitude. You have to believe in your self as much as the dress.
"Things that dont overtake the personality of the wearer"
"Clothes are something that totally empower you"

Friday 12 August 2011


Celebration of FASHION

Why do we as women need to buy unnecessary things?
We can not control ourselves, we are impulsive and spontaneous
Are we understood by men?
Do they know how we enjoy spending money and feel free in our own way
So many women have to lie about their retail therapy
We deserve to treat ourselves as goddess and indulge our innermost desires by shopping beautiful things that
make us happy 
do you agree or disagree?


Love

Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused

Wednesday 10 August 2011

Answer this simple questionnaire and find out the truth


He makes you laugh until you cry 
A sense of the humour is one of the most appealing qualities in a man and sharing the same jokes will keep you close, whatever comes your way.  It doesn't matter if no one else finds you funny, as long as you can make each other laugh out loud.
You want the same things out of life 
If you want to settle down and have a family and he wants to travel the world with no commitments then you are not on the same page. Although all couples have to make compromises you should essentially want the same things out of life and be able to work towards them together. 
He likes you best with no make up on
Yes, you may think he is lying but the chances are that he really does prefer you au natural. He loves you for you, not for the clothes you wear or the make up you doll yourself up in. If he tells you're pretty when you are cuddled up in your pyjamas then chances are that he means it. 
You love him because of his flaws 
It is wrong to think that to be ‘the one' your man has to be perfect. Nobody is perfect. He is ‘the one' when you know him well enough to see all his flaws, accept them for part of who he is, and love him just as much anyway.
He supports you in everything you do       
Whether you are going for a job promotion or planning a night out with your friends - he should be your biggest cheerleader. He may not agree 100% with all your decisions but he will never stop you doing anything, will be there to offer advice and pick you up when things go wrong. 
You trust him implicitly  
If you have been hurt in the past it can be difficult to trust again, but it is an important part of any relationship. Your partner should earn your trust by proving that he always keeps his word and treats you with respect. No, you can never be 100% sure he won't stray but 99.5% will do. 
Even your dad/best friend/dog likes him 
OK, it shouldn't matter what other people think of him, but it is still nice to know that they approve. Your dad and best friend are only looking out for your best interests and it is difficult to convince them that somebody is good enough for you. If your boyfriend manages to get them on his side then you are probably on to a winner.
You wake up and feel lucky each morning 
As you roll over in the morning and see him lying next to you, you are struck with a great sense of contentment. Here, out of everywhere in the world, is where you most want to be. You feel lucky to have him in your life and can't imagine sharing it with anyone else.
You stop noticing the cute guy at the coffee shop 
Of course you are still going to find other men attractive but it is amazing how much less you notice them when you have found ‘the one'. Think about it, have you met anyone recently who really got your juices flowing? No? Then chances are he's right in front of you.  
You just know
Sometimes there is no defining factor or moment that confirms he is ‘the one' - you just know. When your life is brighter with him in it (even with his annoying habits and football obsession), when you feel happy each morning and can't imagine your life without him, when you smile thinking about him - you just know.

                                                                                     


When you thought I wasn’t looking
You kissed me good-night
And I felt loved.
When you thought I wasn’t looking
I saw tears come from your eyes
And I learned that sometimes things hurt—
But that it’s alright to cry.
When you thought I wasn’t looking
You smiled
And it made me want to look that pretty too.
When you thought I wasn’t looking
You cared
And I wanted to be everything I could be.
When you thought I wasn’t looking—
I looked . . .
And wanted to say thanks
For all those things you did
When you thought I wasn’t looking